A Valentine
Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and it is truly required for us in getting connected to the real meaning of this day.
Most of us presume that a valentine is one to whom we send a valentine card or with someone whom you are romantically involved. But this turns out to be absolutely invalid if we sit and introspect ourselves.
I'm not pointing out people who are committed nor i'm against the joy of celebrating one of the most beautiful days celebrated after the two saints valentinus as per western christian mythology.
But the question here is what do the so called valentine mean, we cannot draw scientific nor grammatical meaning for this unlike other words. Basically it is not a bounded nor restricted to only specific qualities .
In simple words its someone where you could be utmost happy in a healthy way.. when i mean healthy way it means when you say you are happy you really mean it and not for the satisfaction of anyone else.
If we could just rewind our life 20 years back this is what the true happiness that everyone of us had experienced with our very first Valentine.. yes all of us were born with and from a valentine.. "Mother"
Yes... the so called healthy happiness is what we have already experienced in our childhood. We were completely happy with our own world and the we had our valentine who in turn was happy every moment for all the little things we did for ourselves without our consent.
I do not say its only confined to our parents or friends, but it should be the one who could make you speak your heart out. Again its not that we only get it one sided but it should be a coin with same heads on both the sides. That is when you can be actually what you are and also let the other person be the same.
Being a valentine is not about having phone calls or chats hours together and just sleep in a doubt of whether its my turn tomorrow or could be taken away by anyone else.
When we say true love it means you should even enjoy the silence it between you and your valentine, it might sound little dramatic but that's true you should be able to enjoy your silence and the same way sweetly accept the noise that pitches in at-times.
Its not about exchanging costly gifts but giving respect to each other's valuable thoughts.You need not treat each other as a prince or princess but just give that little lovely space of yourself to your person and that's enough you'll be the evergreen King/Queen in their heart.
I know it would be pages together if one starts speaking about it, but again everyone has their own perspective. End of it we all would love to share/accompany someone in this very short life with bunches of thoughts and desires... But once we get in everyone keep missing the funda of why you have chosen the other person with so much of effort to have him/her in your life.
Just keep this little thing in our mind we wouldn't be specifically looking for 14th of feb as everyday would be blossoming in the same way.
Here by wishing all the lovely people of the world a very happy valentines day... :) :)
Most of us presume that a valentine is one to whom we send a valentine card or with someone whom you are romantically involved. But this turns out to be absolutely invalid if we sit and introspect ourselves.
I'm not pointing out people who are committed nor i'm against the joy of celebrating one of the most beautiful days celebrated after the two saints valentinus as per western christian mythology.
But the question here is what do the so called valentine mean, we cannot draw scientific nor grammatical meaning for this unlike other words. Basically it is not a bounded nor restricted to only specific qualities .
In simple words its someone where you could be utmost happy in a healthy way.. when i mean healthy way it means when you say you are happy you really mean it and not for the satisfaction of anyone else.
If we could just rewind our life 20 years back this is what the true happiness that everyone of us had experienced with our very first Valentine.. yes all of us were born with and from a valentine.. "Mother"
Yes... the so called healthy happiness is what we have already experienced in our childhood. We were completely happy with our own world and the we had our valentine who in turn was happy every moment for all the little things we did for ourselves without our consent.
I do not say its only confined to our parents or friends, but it should be the one who could make you speak your heart out. Again its not that we only get it one sided but it should be a coin with same heads on both the sides. That is when you can be actually what you are and also let the other person be the same.
Being a valentine is not about having phone calls or chats hours together and just sleep in a doubt of whether its my turn tomorrow or could be taken away by anyone else.
When we say true love it means you should even enjoy the silence it between you and your valentine, it might sound little dramatic but that's true you should be able to enjoy your silence and the same way sweetly accept the noise that pitches in at-times.
Its not about exchanging costly gifts but giving respect to each other's valuable thoughts.You need not treat each other as a prince or princess but just give that little lovely space of yourself to your person and that's enough you'll be the evergreen King/Queen in their heart.
I know it would be pages together if one starts speaking about it, but again everyone has their own perspective. End of it we all would love to share/accompany someone in this very short life with bunches of thoughts and desires... But once we get in everyone keep missing the funda of why you have chosen the other person with so much of effort to have him/her in your life.
Just keep this little thing in our mind we wouldn't be specifically looking for 14th of feb as everyday would be blossoming in the same way.
Here by wishing all the lovely people of the world a very happy valentines day... :) :)
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